Yes, Black Girls–Wellness Is For You, Too

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Janene Kiehn Ret. · 4 months ago · 4 minutes read


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Reclaiming Wellness: Why Self-Care Matters, Especially for Black Women

A Journey into Inclusive Wellness

My foray into wellness began unexpectedly, during my college years working for a Black-owned beauty brand. It was a world steeped in ritual, subtly introducing me to self-care through a distinctly Black lens. This experience became my foundation, a stark contrast to the predominantly white, affluent image of wellness I later encountered. The lack of representation was jarring, highlighting the exclusivity often associated with self-care.

For many Black women, wellness feels like an unattainable luxury. This perception stems from the industry's focus on the intangible – aspirational versions of ourselves – further amplified by the lack of diverse representation. But as a beauty and wellness writer, I've come to understand that self-care is not a privilege, but a necessity, particularly for marginalized communities.

As Black women, we're often conditioned to prioritize others, leaving little room for our own well-being. But as the adage goes, "You can't pour from an empty cup." Wellness, for me, is the replenishing ritual that fills that cup, enabling us to give back from a place of strength and fulfillment.

"Most Black women don’t feel embraced by the wellness industry. Wellness can seem actively exclusive if you aren’t affluent, white, and thin."

Why Wellness Matters

The elusive nature of wellness contributes to its perceived exclusivity. Erewhon smoothies, expensive retreats, and unpronounceable supplements often come to mind. This nebulous image creates a disconnect, especially when representation is lacking. But wellness offers Black women crucial tools to navigate the unique stressors we collectively face. And importantly, many of these tools are free and accessible.

Stress Regulation and the Strong Black Woman

Fannie Lou Hamer's powerful words, "I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired," resonate deeply. Studies show that Black women experience disproportionately high levels of chronic stress, largely due to social factors like racial discrimination. This stress manifests physically and mentally, even contributing to premature aging – challenging the "Black don't crack" narrative.

The Strong Black Woman archetype, while seemingly empowering, can be detrimental to our well-being. Research indicates that over-identifying with this schema intensifies caretaking responsibilities and internalizes vulnerability, leading to increased psychological distress. Wellness provides a pathway to manage stress symptoms and regulate our nervous systems, enabling healthier responses to adversity.

Reconnecting with Our Bodies

Constantly supporting others often leaves Black women disconnected from our own bodies. Wellness practices, like therapy (especially modalities like EFT tapping and somatic therapy), can be powerful tools for reconnection. These practices help release limiting beliefs, access emotions through physical sensations, and break free from fight-or-flight responses.

Holistic wellness—encompassing movement, balanced nutrition, and self-care—can alleviate physical manifestations of stress, such as high cortisol levels and chronic illnesses. It's about reclaiming our bodies and prioritizing our needs.

Finding Balance: Community and Self-Care

While wellness can sometimes promote toxic individuality, true self-care is not about isolating ourselves at the expense of others. For Black women, navigating this balance can be particularly challenging. We are often presented with extremes: complete self-sacrifice or hyper-individualism. This dichotomy impacts our mental health, contributing to higher rates of major depressive disorder.

Wellness, at its best, empowers us to find equilibrium. Like therapy, it allows us to retreat inward for self-evaluation, then re-emerge better equipped to connect with the world. Journaling, movement, or any practice that fosters self-connection strengthens our capacity for meaningful relationships within our communities.

Addressing the Nutrition Gap

The "nutrition gap" disproportionately affects Black women, hindering access to essential vitamins and nutrients. Emotional eating, limited time, and financial constraints often contribute to dietary deficiencies, impacting mood, vitality, and long-term health.

Wellness includes nourishing our bodies effectively. Brands like Trywell, a Black-owned supplement company, are working to close this gap through education and targeted solutions. A diverse wellness industry can raise awareness of health disparities and create pathways to address them.

Accessible Wellness Practices

Wellness is not just about expensive classes and exclusive clubs. It can be integrated into our daily lives through simple, affordable practices. Here are a few to try:

* The physiological sigh: Two deep breaths followed by an audible sigh, repeated as needed, can quickly release stress.

* Legs up the wall: A few minutes in this position increases blood flow and relieves physical and mental tension.

* Humming: This simple act stimulates the vagus nerve, helping regulate the nervous system.

* Mindful walks: Sunlight and movement regulate circadian rhythms and provide low-impact exercise.

* Ritualistic self-care: Transforming everyday tasks, like hair washing, into mindful moments.

* Connecting with loved ones: Reaching out to friends and family strengthens social connections and supports mental well-being.

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